There’s a reason you keep ending up in the same place.

You recognize the pattern. You know where it came from. You even know what you want to do differently. And yet, something in you keeps choosing the familiar.

What if this isn’t failure… but an invitation to go deeper?

the work of wholeness

  • The parts of ourselves we don't know are often the ones making the decisions.

    We all develop ways of being that help us belong, stay safe, feel loved, succeed, keep the peace, and just make life work.

    Over time, those patterns become so familiar we mistake them for who we are.

    — The one who takes care of everything.

    — The one who always gets it right.

    — The one who keeps the peace.

    These are highly intelligent adaptations, not flaws.

    But they don’t have to keep running your life.

  • When you see what's running beneath the surface, you have more choice.

    Depth work invites us to get very curious about what we’ve learned to protect, hide, deny, or carry— and discover what else wants to be known and expressed.

    — What do you want when you’re not taking care of everyone else?

    — When you stop looking on the outside for answers, what do you already know?

    — What becomes possible when perfectionism, duty, or fear no longer have the final say?

    The goal is not to become someone better. It is to become more fully yourself.

we follow what is alive

There is no formula for this work.

We might begin with something that happened yesterday, or a dream you can’t stop thinking about. Maybe it’s a reaction that was outsized or a decision you can’t make. An image that keeps appearing. A space in your body that won’t let go. A longing you don’t allow yourself to name.

We follow the thread.

My work draws from Jungian depth psychology, Eastern philosophy, embodied awareness, and more than three decades of contemplative practice. Depending on what emerges, we may work with dreams, shadow, active imagination, archetypes, inquiry, somatics, or creativity.

We tend to what is asking for your attention.

and then, you begin to live differently

You tell the truth sooner.

You stop carrying what isn’t yours.

You recognize when the past is making decisions in the present.

You let yourself receive.

You risk being truly seen.

You stay with yourself when it’s uncomfortable.

Little by little, your life begins to feel more like your own.

working together

  • We work in 6-, 9-, or 12- month containers, meeting twice per month on Zoom.

    After each session, you’ll receive a detailed recap and recording, along with reflections, practices, or invitations to carry the work into your life between sessions.

    Support between sessions is available and encouraged so we can stay connected to what’s unfolding, notice patterns as they arise, and keep the work moving between conversations.

  • I’ve been working with clients 1:1 for more than 25 years. I’m warm, curious, direct, and deeply engaged and committed to our relationship and the work we do together. I’ll listen closely, reflect what I see and hear, and ask a lot of questions! Sometimes those questions will take you somewhere unexpected, and hopefully they will challenge the stories and assumptions that are keeping you stuck.

    I won’t tell you what to do or give you a plan to follow. We work with what’s coming up for you in real time. All you have to do is bring what’s present. We begin there.

  • To answer this question, start by noticing what brought you here. Maybe something you read here landed in you as familiar. You recognized yourself in a pattern, felt a twinge of possibility, or just the sense of yes, there is something here for me. Pay attention. Knowing often begins before we can fully explain what— or how— we know.

    Maybe you are arriving with a clearly defined challenge or goal, or maybe not. What really matters is your willingness to be curious, honest, and actively engaged in your own process. To look beyond the obvious answers, stay with difficult questions, and allow what you discover to find its way into your life.

  • Yes! Jungian psychology and Eastern philosophy are simply frameworks that enrich the coaching process. You don’t need to know anything about them to get started. I’ll introduce concepts as they’re helpful, and together, we’ll explore how they can support your growth and self-discovery.

  • We begin with a complimentary 30-minute conversation. It’s a space for you to tell me what’s coming up for you, ask questions, and get a feel for what it would be like to work together.

    I’ll listen for where the energy is, what might be asking for your attention, and whether I believe this work can support you. If it feels like a good fit for both of us, we’ll talk from there about what comes next.

    No preparation is required. Just come as you are, with whatever brought you here.

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“You are the space in which the whole universe is contained. You are the one who is all-pervading, the self within all.”

-Maitrayaniya Upanishad